1. Congrats Amy and Josh, tell us, how did you decide on your overall wedding style?
We’re both pretty laid-back, fun-loving people, so it was really important that the day felt like us.
A big, traditional wedding never felt right for who we are – we just wanted to throw an epic party surrounded by our nearest and dearest.
As a graphic designer who specialises in wedding stationery, I knew I wanted to bring a fun, whimsical vibe to the day and carry that style through every little detail, from the invites to the final moments of the night.
2. What was the most useful decision you made early in planning?
Budget! We knew exactly what we were working with from day dot and stuck to that. This helped in all decision making.
3. Did you have any planning shortcuts that saved you time or stress?
Not exactly a planning shortcut, but one thing that really helped ease the pressure was our approach to the guest list.
We were initially overwhelmed because we wanted to invite everyone! So, we decided to host a big engagement party where we didn’t have to worry so much about numbers.
It ended up being the perfect way to celebrate with a wider group, and it made narrowing down the final wedding guest list so much easier—we felt like we’d already shared a special moment with those we couldn’t invite to the big day.
4. How did you make the day feel personal to you and your guests?
This was really important to us!
Even with around 180 guests, we wanted the day to be intimate.
We included thoughtful touches like personalised shot glasses with our wedding details, custom menus that doubled as place cards with each guest’s name, and a guest book tablecloth with fabric markers – which we now use at dinner every night.
Since it was Anzac Day, we also played a version of two-up, which was such a fun way to get everyone involved.
5. Was there anything you thought you needed that you ended up skipping?
We thought we needed live music for our ceremony / canapes hour but ended up skipping this and just playing a playlist my mum made.
This actually gave us way more control over the songs we like and how we wanted them played for the BIG moments like walking down the aisle.
6. If you could give one piece of advice to couples starting to plan now, what would it be?
If I could give one piece of advice, it would be to stay true to you.
It’s so easy to get swept up in trends or feel like you need to do something just because you saw it on TikTok or Instagram. But the most memorable weddings are the ones that reflect the couple—what you love, what feels natural, and what you genuinely enjoy.
Think about what you and your partner have appreciated at other weddings and build from there. Make it your own, and don’t be afraid to skip the things that don’t feel like “you.”
The Rapid‑Fire Round
Moment you wish you could relive: The drinks with our bridal party in the bridal suite before walking out to all of our guests as Husband and Wife!
Song that got everyone on the dance floor: Our walk out song “Mother You Just Can’t Get Enough” – The New Radicals
Vendor who went above and beyond: Our Photographer and Videographer. They captured everything perfectly without us even noticing they were there.
Song that kept you sane: “I Only Smoke When I Drink” – Nimino
Song that made you cry: “This Feeling” – Alabama Shakes
MVP guest: Our MC’s – they made the whole night and looked the part in Disco Cowboy hats
Vendor who felt like a friend: Our Florist – Potter Studio
Most useful advice you received: Amy’s Uncle to Josh as he was standing at the end of the aisle waiting for Amy – “We are all here for you two.”
First thing you ate the next day: Leftover ham rolls
Most used phrase in the week before: “Ask Kelly”
One word for wedding planning: All-consuming
One word for marriage so far: Bloody-good
Reader Takeaways: What Are Your Top Tips
- Start the day slowly and soak it all in with your bridal party.
- Make time for you and your partner on the day. We had a moment to ourselves right after our bride & groom photos which helped us to relax and stay present.
- Make the most of the DF!
- Try and get around to all your guests, even if it is just to say a quick hello.
- Eat the food and drink the drinks!
Local vendors Amy & Josh used include:
Venue: Bendooley Estate, The Stables
Catering: Bendooley Estate, The Stables
Drinks: Bendooley Estate, The Stables
Transport: Berrima Buslines
Stationary: Amy Lomax Designs
Hair: Brides By Celeste
Wedding planner: Kelly MacNamara
